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Posted November 15, Reviewed by Kaja Perina. T he NYU Medical Center defines a passive-aggressive individual as someone who "may appear to comply or act appropriately, but actually behaves negatively and passively resists. While most of us are guilty of some of the following behaviors at one time or another, a pathological passive-aggressive tends to dwell habitually in several of the following personas, while remaining largely unaware of or unconcerned with how his or her actions affect others.
Deliberately and unreasonably not communicating with you. A variation of the silent treatment is to withhold love and affection. In this case, there is some communication, but the attitude and tone are curt and abrupt. Topics of conversation are superficial and unemotional. This is one of the most common types of passive-aggressiveness in relationships, especially in situations where two people have known each other for some time, and one has given up trying to work through certain issues. By playing a relatively helpless role, the passive-aggressive hopes that someone else perhaps you will fulfill the obligation, or that the matter will simply be dropped.
Brooding can be defined as silent and prolonged unhappiness. Simmering resentment is anger unspoken and barely concealed. In both cases, the issues are not expressed and dealt with directly. Examples may include returning very late without calling after socializing, overspending, deliberately displaying unreasonable habits, or purposely engaging in contemptuous speech. Some passive-aggressives like to make critical remarks, often disguised as humorto either express their hostility towards you, or their displeasure about a situation.
By making you look bad, and getting you to feel bad, the passive-aggressive hopes to impose and maintain psychological superiority over you. The subterfuge is performed clandestinely. Examples of passive-aggressive sabotage include negative gossip, social exclusion, backstabbing, two faced, mixed messages, negative or discomforting surprises, and deliberately falling-through on promises — all of which are at your expense.
By targeting your emotional weaknesses and vulnerability, the passive-aggressive hopes to coerce you into ceding unreasonable requests and demands. The passive-aggression here is a form of coercive manipulation. Examples include exaggerated or imagined personal issues. Exaggerated or imagined health issues. Deliberate frailty to elicit sympathy and favor. Playing weak, powerless, or martyr. If you find yourself in a passive-aggressive relationship, there are many strategies and skills you can utilize to help restore health, respect, and cooperation.
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