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When you meet someone new and you're totally smitten, sometimes a relationship can move too fast. Even if you're not looking to go from zero to 60 in record time and you actually want to take it slow, when you're really feeling it for someone you can lose control of the situation.
Then, before you know it, it's only been a few weeks and you're already talking about moving in together. Which, although great because being in love is awesome, moving too quickly can sometimes doom the relationship. Susan Edelmantells Bustle. While there's no guarantee that a relationship that moves too quickly will absolutely, positively end just as quickly as it came to be, taking it slow is usually a far better option than racing through it; it's not as though there's some invisible finish line you need to get to, so taking your time to really relish in those fun beginning moments is something worth considering.
Because once that honeymoon phase of a relationship is over, it's not coming back. So, is your new relationship moving too quickly? Here are eight s that it is and it's time to pull back a bit, according to experts. A that you're moving too quickly in a relationship, is that you're dropping everything and anything about you. While it's great that you're so open to do so, and do so without any qualms, if you're looking to build a healthy relationship that you hope will be long-term, there's really no need to reveal every single detail about you right away. Take your time, sprinkling bits and pieces about yourself to your partner, and ask that they do the same.
A lot of time. Especially in situations where your partner feels like a dream come true, it's easy to give them credit and think the best of them. However, it takes major conflicts and adverse situations to see how people really show up. Don't trust until they've earned your trust.
When you first meet someone and you can't get enough of themit can feel almost impossible to give each other space because you really want to be with them at all times. And, if you can't be with them, you want to constantly be in contact. Of course this is understandable, however, this isn't just a that things are moving too quickly, but that you could be on a road to losing yourself in the process.
No one is perfect. But while this is a fact, when things are moving too fast and you're swept up in it, you're likely to be unable to see this new partner for who they really are. When this happens, you not only begin to idealize them but even idolize them, thinking they can do no wrong — which is setting yourself up for potential hurt. Although fighting with your partner is never any fun, it's an inevitable component of every relationship. It's also in those first big fights that a lot about your partner is revealed.
How people react under pressure says a lot about them. It's a different story when things get hard. Before you make major decisions about your partner and your life, it's important to see all sides of your partner: how they handle stress, disagreement, adverse situations, anger, sadness, disappointment, etc. In other words, their emotional intelligence.
How well couples repair from conflict and fights determines how well they will be able to grow closer over time.
You absolutely want to know if you and your partner share the same values when it comes to sex, and when you're moving quickly you may be having a lot of sex but not actually communicating about it. Fehr says being on the same about sex is just as important as it is for other values. Ask them what makes sex good for them and make sure you're it's not a topic that's too uncomfortable to talk about. Although you can rush things by meeting your new partner's friends and family, you can also rush things by making monumental decisions for your future together without meeting their friends and family, too.
You want to gauge their values, emotional intelligence, and how well they respect, support and play with others. Sadly, alienating your friends can come with the territory when your relationship is moving too quickly. While many of us can be a guilty of putting our friends on a back burner, at least temporarily when we're in a new relationship, as long as we don't let it last and come back to them, then no crime no foul.
But where there is a true crime lays if you put yourself so far down on your list of priorities, that you lose yourself in the process.
What's driving this decision? If you're twisting and bending your own life to suit that of your partner, most likely you're acting from fear of losing them. Relationships where one person loses themselves to create or keep the relationship are bound to fail. When you're head over heels for someone it isn't easy to pull things in and take it slow, but it's important.
If you're looking for something that's going to last long-term, it really is better to build a foundation and ease your way into it. Flings are meant to be quick and speedy; relationships that have a greater chance at a success are not. By Amanda Chatel.What is too fast in a relationship
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